As we get along in life, we fall, we rise, we meet people, we leave people. Life is a journey, you move every minutes. In the road to achieving our dreams and destiny in life, we also meet with different kinds of people, some will nock you down, some will raise you up, some will challenge you, some will encourage you, a lot will discourage you, in fact, a lot will plan to totally bring you down. In reality, the experience is intentionally designed by God to make you stand unshakable when you finally reach the mountain of fulfillment.
Friendship are people around you or in your life that they are neither too close nor far away from you. You might not necessarily be affectionately close but they are people you can call friends- Casual friends. Actually, many of them might not really be friends to you in their minds, but because their (negative or positive) acts challenge you, they are still your friends.
To achieve one's dream in life, you can not do without people, you can not stand alone. From the beginning of the world, God, the creator had illustrated the importance of friendship in the life of man(human being). Gen 2:18 The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." The creation of Eve to help Adam was not only explaining marital companionship but also the importance of societal companionship, that is, a man can not succeed alone. God had before the creation of Eve gave Adam Visions and Assignments, but God realized that, all He had committed into his hands he would not be able to achieve alone, unless there is an helper. A man can dream alone, has great plans for his future,but the achievement of that dream can never be by him alone.
Therefore, it pertinent to understand the fact that, friendship is a divinely ordained relationship to help man in the fulfillment of his destiny. Don't isolate yourself, friendship makes your journey easy and less stressful.
7 Notes On Friendship
#1 Friends are helpers of destiny that God has placed around you or in your life, so embrace people either they are good or bad to you. Always remember that they are in your life for a particular purpose that might be known only to God.
#2 Make friends but don't rely too much on them. Men can fail or betray you at any time, always be conscious of that.
#3 Deliberately choose friends. It might not be for intimacy, but for Purpose.
#4 As we move on in life, people finds you and you also find people but always remember that they don't define you, they are only there to help in designing of your beautiful destiny. Many has run away from or chase away the people who God deliberately put around them to help in the design of their dreams.
#5 Always define every friendship or relationships you find yourself in. Yes! Do that at the corner of your room, analyse how many times that the negative or positive acts of that person have challenged you to do the more great things. Give them names in your heart.
#6 Don't stick close to antagonistic friends. They can kill your dreams and even you.
#7 Be good to all! Every one can not be good to you, but goodies find you when you do good to everyone.
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