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EXCERPTS FROM F'ÀWỌ̀RAJÀ

I would be too quick to judge who he really was to Jane as at that time.   His outfit surpassed that of a mere colleague for an indoor party but then, he seemed to be known by Jola because she challenged them for coming later than they planned when the four walked in... “He may be one of the millionaires in her office, maybe he’s her boss…see, whatever!” I bothered my mind with this thought as I stylishly scrutinized his entire outfit.   He was dressed in a pink senator attire touched with silver accessories, his shoes were Italian products and his wrist watch matched with the accessories on his attire. I was certain, that watch was a designer watch.   As if he knew I was staring at him...he removed his shades and turned to the right, he said, "Hi".  "Hello", I replied bluntly. His face took my breath. "This guy is cute!" I said the usual thing I used to say to handsome men...words that never got to their ears. I didn’t fancy beards on men, but...

It Is Time To Let Go

  It is pertinent to understand that, no human can survive without interacting with other human beings. Here, many people think their survival is hinged on the relationship with a particular person or set of people, which is not supposed to be so. The kind of interaction we are talking about is not an attachment with a particular person. Truly in our societies, we find ourselves in social gatherings, and there we mingle with people, we meet and get along with friends. We meet friends, we relate with people on an interpersonal level, we talk about life, we share love, and become intimate during the process. During that process we realize that friendship is one of the best relationship in the society, even though, it is not every relationship that matters. We need to draw the line, every relationship can not benefit a man no matter how, unless such person does not have values that guide his life. Friendship as on of the relationships in the society that build people, makes one strong...

25 Templates Of Singlehood

In this context, templates refer to foundational truths about something. In other words, it is the basics, the realities and Principles of something. Therefore, there are basic truths about Singlehood Season. These basic truths might be strange to majority of youths of this generation, but if they can be layed in your hearts, they will help in sailing through the season. # Singlehood is a Season. # Singlehood is a state of being unmarried. # Singlehood Season will expire. # Singlehood with God is the foundation and stepping stone to success. # The best Season to create intimacy with the Holy Spirit (God) is the Singlehood. # Singlehood is a Season to spread the gospel of Christ. # Success in every other Seasons of life is dependent on the lifestyle led in the Singlehood. # Learning is easy during the Singlehood Season. # Singlehood is a Season to learn the life lessons. # Singlehood is a Season to learn self-control. # Singlehood is a Season to know yourself (Self-Study). #...

SINGLEHOOD IS A SEASON TO MAN YOUR POST

 Outrightly after wedding, you are still in your post, but you concentrate more when it is you alone and it doesn't mean you can't do better in your marriage, it depends on your marital choice. If you marry right, marriage is an institution to do more.        Every Singles are expected to be doing something before going into marriage, like Adam. Adam was already busy with his assignments, he was keeping and taking care of the garden. Likewise, singles of this generation, the plan of God for us is not for us to stay idle while waiting for marriage. You must have something, a job or business and work for God (in line with the purpose of God for your life).         Many singles(Females especially) in their Singlehood Season are busy waiting for a spouse and mourning their Singlehood, waiting for a spouse that will get them job or establish a business for them. This is not right with the plan of God. The plan of God is that you are es...

SINGLEHOOD IS THE SEASON TO FIND YOUR PURPOSE

Singlehood Is The Season To Find Your Purpose   One of the major purpose why Singlehood is designed is for seeking and Knowing purpose. Every human being on earth have reasons and purpose why God created them. God is full of wisdom than to create man for idleness. God has called every one from their womb to particular professions(I don't mean job or career). And majority of those that miss it on earth, miss it because they could not find their purpose maybe at the appropriate time or at all.         Finding your purpose on earth has to do with your level of relationship with God. Before you can know a man's heart, you must first know Him. Before you can know the mind of God for you, you must grow an intimate relationship with Him first. Adam the first man God created had a very close relationship with God, every cool of the evening God would visit him like a man visits his friend, it was during this visitations and conversations between God and Adam ...

SINGLEHOOD IS A SEASON TO CREATE INTIMACY WITH GOD

Singlehood is a season deliberately designed by God since the creation of human being. In the beginning, God had it in mind to create Eve, but He wanted to demonstrate the procedure to man. God works by Principles and Rules, He works with Guidelines. And His plan was, Man should know and love Him first before loving another thing or person.         God intentionally created Adam before He made Him a wife, He wanted to demonstrate for us the essence of Singlehood, therefore when Adam was single, he was closely intimated with God. There was a kind of unbroken relationship, a Communion between Adam and Eve, him and God would talk and discuss just like friends. He was found of God and God too was found of Him, they were so in love with each other.  It was God and Adam alone.        He was lost in Loving God that He did not even know if he needed to get marry, but God knew His needs. And after God saw that, this single...

SINGLEHOOD IS THE FOUNDATIONAL SEASON

Singlehood Season is like an opportunity, when lost, it can never be regained. Even though you quit your marriage, it is not the same, you can never be like the way you used to be when you were yet unmarried.       There is never any building without a foundation and we have various kinds of foundations. The structure of a building determines the kind of foundation that would be layed for it. The way we lay the foundation of a bungalow is different from how that of a five or six or more story building would be layed. It is impossible to lay a foundation for one floor building and later build a three floor building on it, if tried, the house would collapse.  How STRONG the foundation you layed for your life during this Season of Singlehood determines how WELL your life would be in the later Seasons.        It is however essential for singles to understand that, the period to lay the foundation for their destiny is a limited period, the...

SINGLEHOOD IS A SEASON

Singlehood Is A Season In Your Lifetime Singlehood is a state of being single, a state of not being entangled or married. The singlehood season is a period while you are yet unmarried and waiting for marriage.        In our various societies, especially in this present generation, we hold on to lots of erroneous beliefs about singlehood. We believe that the singlehood is a period to flex and enjoy ourselves, we say it's a period of freedom to do whatever we like, it is a period to mesmerize. Well, while all these are good and fact, they are not all true and what God has designed the period for. What then are the truths about singlehood?     Singlehood is a "Season" Just as we have the raining season and all other seasons in the year, also singlehood is a season. It is impossible for rain to fall round the year in this Country Nigeria for instance, it rains for a season and it stops. Singlehood just like season is for a period of time, it ends on...

Kari Jobe My Prophetess

Kari Jobe My Prophetess Kari Jobe is an American Christian worship singer and song writer. She started singing at age three (3). She became born again at age five(5). At age thirteen, this started to lead worship in church.   Ecclesiastes 12 vs 1"Remember your Creator in the days of your youth, before the days of trouble came and the years approach when you will say, I have no pleasure in them."   The earlier you discover yourself, the better, don't walk long in the wrong way. This woman, in the earlier years of her life, she discovered herself and she lived in her dream. How do you find your own way?  The only where you can find your own way is the highway of Jesus. Run to the highway of Jesus Christ. He is the way, the truth and the life. He will show you the way. Acknowledging that you are the His property makes you leave everything in His hands and the best time to seek God is Now!   Kari Jobe is 38, meaning she had known God for 33years, she started ...

PROCRASTINATION

This I call an aspect of Laziness. Procrastination is an habitual way of posting what ought to be done at the expense of its outcome. It is one of the common bad traits amidst our youths of today. Procrastination is doing the wrong thing at the right time, I mean doing the wrong at time you are supposed to be doing a very important thing.        It is not just an act of postponing your works while sleeping. You might actually be accupied with another thing, but not what ought to be done at the moment. Many of the activities that take time and make someone to procrastinate include, gaming, movie watching,idle talks, social media roaming e.t.c.        When you procrastinate your work to do, you will finally get yourself stocked up at the late hour when you're supposed to be resting. When it is what you must do, you will still meet it at the front. But the danger is, you won't be able to do it as perfectly as it ought to be do...

FENCE YOUR WOMB

   The womb is the part of woman's body where babies grow before they are born. Online English Dictionary gives its meaning as "Any cavity CONTAINING and ENVELOPING anything." This implies that, the womb is like an house where treasures are enveloped. A world changer group in Nigeria calls it the woman's womb "The Richest Spot".        The womb is like a building, where destinies can be made or marred. The womb of a woman is a treasury which contains treasures and destinies of unborn generations. But what happens to an unfenced house, the house is opened to every kinds of insurgencies, the armed robbers can break in at any time. Same thing with the womb. When the womb is not secured and well fenced, it will be opened to sexual immorality which is the robber of treasures and great destinies.        The womb is called the "Richest Sport" because, those great people we see in the world today were sometimes bred in the womb of a woman....

HABITS

Do you say habit?        There is this Lady that sweeps her room two times every day, she does it in the morning and whenever she wants to go to bed. This particular evening she's tired and said, " I won't sweep this evening". Some minutes to that conclusion, she found herself almost done with the sweeping, she just smiled and continued.          Habit! Habit is an act performed  regularly.These are what you consciously build into your life and you unconsciously continue to do. The lady, didn't know how she picked the broom to sweep until she found herself doing it. In a statement, she's used to doing it. The same way you say, I'm used to reading three hours a day.          What is it about habit? Habit is like building a house,you build habits in to your life the same way,and remove the bad ones, through consistent practice. Whatever you do often becomes your habit. Whatever no body teaches or pushes you to do i...

YOU ARE A VIRGIN

You Are A Virgin Many ladies have been battered and shattered in the hollow of pre-marital sex. This has caused many of them to be emotionally paralyzed and found no way out than to continue in the immoral act. The act, pre-marital sex is called "Fornication" . It is a sin against God and it's against the societal morals.        But, the truth is, a lot of them that fell in to the trap were ignorant of the danger. And many who continue in the act are not doing it to satisfy themselves but, to cover up guiltiness(meanwhile, the more they do it, it more guilty they become). They are doing it because they don't have a way out of it.          Dear Young Lady, I want you to know this that, the more you lower your standard to a man, the more you loose your strength and confidence. Oh! You want to argue that? Tell me what you feel from the depth of your heart in the corner of your room after having sex with him. Don't you want him more so that he ca...

WISDOM IS WEALTH

Multitudes of people are out there chasing after riches and wealth, little did they know that, a wretched man indeed is the man who lacks wisdom. Someone who is materially rich can be the best fool. A popular man of God in Nigeria always warns that, "Don't be so poor that all you have is money."Pro.14vs24 " The crown of the wise is their wealth of Wisdom, but the foolishness of [self-confident] fools is [nothing but] folly."      Yes, money is good. In fact, I don't think anyone can survive in this present world without money. At that, should it be the base of wealth? No! For a man who has no wisdom will never be able to manage well his wealth. A fool runs after money when actually he oughts  to run after what will fetch him money and many.Understandable for the wise.      Dear youth, now that you have the strength, it is profitable for you to seek after the real wealth and not the money! Afterall you use all the money acquired on materials that will s...

WHO WANTS TO BECOME A KING/A QUEEN

 A particular adage says  "How the night will look like is known by how the morning is spent" Any prince who will become a king will start to behave like a king from childhood. Any Girl (princess) who wants to become a Queen keeps herself. Do you want to be great in life? your attitudes today matter, because Whatever you do today, good or bad will reflect on your future.       Girl, have you ever seen the first lady of a Kingdom or State or Country to wear rags or dress half naked? No, she will never try it because she's  a Queen/ The First Lady.  Let people start to honour you  through your attitudes, dressing and all you do from now. Don't wait till then, then you would only have to use your position to buy honour for yourself and people who know you will honour the post and not you.        Truly, there are two kinds of past. A man can remember his past and smile and say. Thank God my past was great, it doesn't mean it was pe...

THE FUTURE

The is the tomorrow you will live in after today. Prepared for it or not, the future will come. Although only God knows if tomorrow will come or not. But, there is this popular saying that "live your today like the end is now and prepare for tomorrow as if the end will never come."Yes, that's the irony of life.  If the end does not come, surely the future will surface. So, why don't you prepare for the future now that it's today        Take time to create a beautiful future for yourself. Of a truth, it's either you consciously create your future or it caught you unaware. Whichever way, it will come. Don't be like people who will sit down everyday folding arms and imagining themselves buying 100 cars in the future, living in a castle with their beautiful families and enjoying wealth. You see, these are very good thoughts. But in reality, they come by work not only by chance alone.         Note this,  before God can favour you,...

RESOURCEFULNESS

Resourcefulness is an act of maturity.It is being intellectually coordinated, active, and having the capacity to handle issues, finding solutions to problems promptly and independently.          The Cambridge Dictionary refers to resourcefulness as "the ability to make decisions and act on your own." You need not to be reminded again that you've passed through the stage of dependency and that majority of us are adults. One needs to acquire the ability to deal skillfully and promptly with any kind of issue or tasks set before him/her out there. And one of the ways of not failing yourself and your Generation is being resourceful.            Resourcefulness is the ability to manage yourself irrespective of where and any condition you find yourself.  Resourcefulness is gaining power over emotional weaknesses. That is, controlling yourself under whatever circumstances you find yourself.          ...

LOVE YOURSELF

I met a lady in a novel, by name she's Ojiji. Ojiji is a slut with a 4g network. Fortunately for Ojiji, she finds someone who can stand by her as a boyfriend. Obi, who has determined in his heart to marry Ojiji wants to try all means of bringing her out of her sexual addiction. And one of the best things he can is to give her exposure, so he takes her out to have fun in a tourist center. Here again, Ojiji is caught having sex with a foreign man, in a seeming shrine! The people of that community respect the place and make sacrifices there. That seems sacrilegious and shameful. It's a sin in the tradition of that land. Ojiji is shamed, scorned, condemned and rejected by everyone. Even her so called lover condemns  her in best words. She can't believe herself been soiled so deep as the villagers and her beloved Obi scorn her. In this most sorrowful hours, behold what she does. Ojiji bounces on her feet. You think she's arrogant? No. Just that, she sums  up cour...

THE SUN STILL SHINES

Dear single, let's examine this scenario together. There was a young lady who leaves in a room apartment. As a normal thing to her, whenever she's alone in the room she barely coveres her nudity. On an afternoon she heard a knock on her door, who's it? She asked. A thick voice responses and said, it's me  Suraj  your neighbour , as her habit, she is putting on nothing to be called a cloth. She rushes to her wardrobe and reaches out to a skimpy gown which she carelessly loads on her body to cover her nakedness. She opens the door, truly it is Suraj. He is welcome and after he leaves, she notices that her gown doesn't go down, because she put it on in haste. She feels broken but was too late, even though she adjusts her dress, her fault has been noticed already. Let's bring out her mistakes, first she didn't ask the purpose of his visit before she opened the door, second, she was so in haste to open the door for Suraj that she couldn't examine ...