Singlehood is a state of being single, a state of not being entangled or married. The singlehood season is a period while you are yet unmarried and waiting for marriage.
In our various societies, especially in this present generation, we hold on to lots of erroneous beliefs about singlehood. We believe that the singlehood is a period to flex and enjoy ourselves, we say it's a period of freedom to do whatever we like, it is a period to mesmerize. Well, while all these are good and fact, they are not all true and what God has designed the period for. What then are the truths about singlehood?
Singlehood is a "Season"
Just as we have the raining season and all other seasons in the year, also singlehood is a season. It is impossible for rain to fall round the year in this Country Nigeria for instance, it rains for a season and it stops. Singlehood just like season is for a period of time, it ends on your wedding day. Actually, someone can be single again marriage, but we are focused on your singlehood before wedding.
Just as we have the raining season and all other seasons in the year, also singlehood is a season. It is impossible for rain to fall round the year in this Country Nigeria for instance, it rains for a season and it stops. Singlehood just like season is for a period of time, it ends on your wedding day. Actually, someone can be single again marriage, but we are focused on your singlehood before wedding.
Ask the farmers the reason why they do not plant every crops in every seasons of the year, they would tell you that, every season is not good for every crops. Each of them have seasons they can be planted, if they must yield good fruits, they must be planted in due season. Likewise the season of singlehood, you can not do everything in this season, the season is meant and designed by God to orchestrate certain of His purposes of your existence and if you bring strange seeds to the season, they would either not yield good fruits or destroy the rest of the seasons of your live.
And now that your singlehood will last someday, do you think it is the best period to play away your time? A lot of people in their Singlehood period has jeopardized other seasons of their lives because of their careless and reckless lifestyle lived during thier singlehood season.
You become conscious of yourself around your middle adolescence age, if we are to calculate it from that age, the longest you can stay in your singlehood is 20 years. No matter how long or short, it will end. So, do not mourn the season, jerk up, and make most of the season. Use the season to plant good seeds that would fetch you many(life, wisdom, peace, strong relationship with God) and money in the noon and even seasons of your life.
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