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SINGLEHOOD IS THE FOUNDATIONAL SEASON

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Singlehood Season is like an opportunity, when lost, it can never be regained. Even though you quit your marriage, it is not the same, you can never be like the way you used to be when you were yet unmarried.
      There is never any building without a foundation and we have various kinds of foundations. The structure of a building determines the kind of foundation that would be layed for it. The way we lay the foundation of a bungalow is different from how that of a five or six or more story building would be layed. It is impossible to lay a foundation for one floor building and later build a three floor building on it, if tried, the house would collapse.  How STRONG the foundation you layed for your life during this Season of Singlehood determines how WELL your life would be in the later Seasons.
       It is however essential for singles to understand that, the period to lay the foundation for their destiny is a limited period, the season will expire someday, no matter how long it takes and whatsoever you do during this season determines the shape and how your life will look like in the later years of your life. 
      This season is the foundation of every man's life. It is a season when you lay  foundation for your Marriage, Career, Child rearing and whatever you would become after the Season. Whatever virtue you can not add to your life or at least lay its foundation during this season becomes difficult afterward. And they say, "as you lay your bed, so you will lie on it". Whatever foundation you build in your singlehood, is whatever you would build upon after the Season expires.
       No wonder, we have a lot of married people struggling with their lives after marriage, some after their marriage look like it is straight from their childhood to marriage. Some look so confused as if they did not have the time to prepare before they matched into marriage, forgetting how many years they used in their Singlehood Season.
       Singlehood season is once in a lifetime. Whatever you lay as foundation during the period becomes what you build on in the later Seasons. Do not mismanage your Singlehood, don't use it to build a rough foundation for your life. Hence, make most of the opportunity and build a strong, solid foundation for your Life.

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