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SINGLEHOOD IS A SEASON TO MAN YOUR POST

 Outrightly after wedding, you are still in your post, but you concentrate more when it is you alone and it doesn't mean you can't do better in your marriage, it depends on your marital choice. If you marry right, marriage is an institution to do more.
       Every Singles are expected to be doing something before going into marriage, like Adam. Adam was already busy with his assignments, he was keeping and taking care of the garden. Likewise, singles of this generation, the plan of God for us is not for us to stay idle while waiting for marriage. You must have something, a job or business and work for God (in line with the purpose of God for your life).
        Many singles(Females especially) in their Singlehood Season are busy waiting for a spouse and mourning their Singlehood, waiting for a spouse that will get them job or establish a business for them. This is not right with the plan of God. The plan of God is that you are established before marriage and grow in your marriage.
       Let us consider the life of Rebekah. Oh! She was a whole single woman, she was confident, and happy to be in her post, she was busy with her work, she was not mourning her singlehood. This is a single Lady depicted in the book of Genesis chapter 24. She was a single who was ripe for marriage, yet she was still enjoying her singlehood. She had a duty, an assignment to fetch water every day, this lady was not ashamed to bear her water pot upon her shoulder, she became more happy when she was called upon to dispense her duty (to give water to a man and his camels) I can feel the radiance on her face, she was doing it with joy. 
    This is exactly what God expects from every single, both female and male. God want you to be busy with Him and for Him during your singlehood. He wants you to man your post and in due season, He himself will bring your own flesh to you.
     Always remember that, no matter how long, your singlehood Season will last, so make most of your time, find something to do, don't stay idle and be happy doing your business.

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