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HABITS

Do you say habit?
       There is this Lady that sweeps her room two times every day, she does it in the morning and whenever she wants to go to bed. This particular evening she's tired and said, " I won't sweep this evening". Some minutes to that conclusion, she found herself almost done with the sweeping, she just smiled and continued.
         Habit! Habit is an act performed  regularly.These are what you consciously build into your life and you unconsciously continue to do. The lady, didn't know how she picked the broom to sweep until she found herself doing it. In a statement, she's used to doing it. The same way you say, I'm used to reading three hours a day.
         What is it about habit? Habit is like building a house,you build habits in to your life the same way,and remove the bad ones, through consistent practice. Whatever you do often becomes your habit. Whatever no body teaches or pushes you to do is your habit. But they are not naturally embedded. Habits are cultivated and they don't slip into your life through thoughts but through consistent practice.So also can you pluck out the bad Habits in your life.
             My dear, what are the habits in your life? Can they take you higher? Can they build your career? Can those habits add to the beauty of your home when you eventually get married? Do they make people clap you in the society?
          As a single, do you care to add another good thing into your life? Do it often and see it becoming part of you.

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