It Is Time To Let Go

It is pertinent to understand that, no human can survive without interacting with other human beings. Here, many people think their survival is hinged on the relationship with a particular person or set of people, which is not supposed to be so. The kind of interaction we are talking about is not an attachment with a particular person. Truly in our societies, we find ourselves in social gatherings, and there we mingle with people, we meet and get along with friends.

We meet friends, we relate with people on an interpersonal level, we talk about life, we share love, and become intimate during the process. During that process we realize that friendship is one of the best relationship in the society, even though, it is not every relationship that matters. We need to draw the line, every relationship can not benefit a man no matter how, unless such person does not have values that guide his life.

Friendship as on of the relationships in the society that build people, makes one stronger. Hence, if you must stay in any interpersonal relationship, it must agree with your personal value, if not, you have to let go.

A lot of people in our societies have volunteered themselves for 'abuse'. Abuse is not only in beating or insult. Abuse is an improper treatment or usage of something. Any relationship in which you are not valued is an abusive relationship and it is time to let go!

Inasmuch as we have different people with different ideas living in the society. Every ideas can not agree with your own idea. Create and build values around your life so that you will be able to discern what is good for you, who is good for you and where is good for you. Any relationship that only sucks you and never contributes is not good for you. Any Relationship in which you are not respected is not good for you. Don't allow anybody in the name of friendship to intimidate you and press down your self-esteem, you have to let go.

If you stay in an abusive relationship, it means your life is short of values. When it is not your choice, when it does not agree with your self value, move away from it, it is not good for you. Just let it go!

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