THE SUN STILL SHINES

Dear single, let's examine this scenario together. There was a young lady who leaves in a room apartment. As a normal thing to her, whenever she's alone in the room she barely coveres her nudity. On an afternoon she heard a knock on her door, who's it? She asked. A thick voice responses and said, it's me  Suraj  your neighbour , as her habit, she is putting on nothing to be called a cloth. She rushes to her wardrobe and reaches out to a skimpy gown which she carelessly loads on her body to cover her nakedness. She opens the door, truly it is Suraj. He is welcome and after he leaves, she notices that her gown doesn't go down, because she put it on in haste. She feels broken but was too late, even though she adjusts her dress, her fault has been noticed already.

Let's bring out her mistakes, first she didn't ask the purpose of his visit before she opened the door, second, she was so in haste to open the door for Suraj that she couldn't examine herself well. Third, she's careless.

Sweetheart,  you know that marriage  is a very common institution that is to a reasonable extent known to majority as Suraj and his voice sounds so familiar to The lady. Many singles rush into marriage without thorough examination of themselves, just like the lady did. When marriage knocks at their door, they don't take time to answer the following questions "Am I ready for it?"," If I'm ready, what are the evidences of readiness?" . If these answers are positive, It will set a pace to ask the next questions, "Why Do I have to get married now? What is the purpose of the marriage? What are the things to be achieved? If again, you are able to answer the questions, then you can open the door.

On the other way round, if you fail to set yourself before you open the door, you might later be intimidated at the end like the lady and it might be too late.

Darling, you're lucky, you still have the time to build up yourself, why not tell marriage to wait at the door till you're ready to find answers to those questions.

Your single hood is a blessing, it's a season that prepares you all-rounder. Why not stay steady and get yourself prepared before you get started. 

Oh! You think the little time you have is no longer enough to prepare? no dear. The sun still shines, you can still make your hay.