Vickie's Vibes

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         Parenting is far more than what most parents think it is. Parenting is being responsible for the needs of your children, be it physical, emotional, spiritual and mental. Parents are expected to give the best of their attention to their children. Unfortunately, the opposite of this is what children get from their parents, only few parents see the need to attend to every need of their children.       Recently, I had the opportunity to see through to the hearts of few teenagers and I realized that the bases of their misbehaviour can only be traced to their parents' negligence of their responsibility upon them. Many adults are a picture of this reality and billions of children out there are victims of the same drama, especially in the African society. Children find it so difficult to relate with their parents. The first and best friend of every child should be his/her parents. Of course, that's the first contact, but parent...

Ìbídámipé Oun gbogbo ti dojúrú tán bàyíí ní ìlú èdá, Eku kò, kó ké bí eku, Béè sìni eye kò kó ké bí eye móó, Oun gbogbo ti dòbírípo, Ìrònú dorí àgbà kodó, Sùgbón; ewo àwon èwe àti ìpéèrè bìi wón ti n yótòmì, Àfi bíi omo tí ìyá rè sèsè papò dà re bi àgbà nrè, Umn! Ótojú sú ni, nínú ìlú èdá, Kíni kí a se?  Àwon àgbàgbà ìlú foríkorí láti to elédùà lo, Elédùà seun, ònà àbáyo ti dé! Kí wá ni ònà àbáyo òún o? Ìbídámipè! Ìbídámipé ni ònà àbáyo. Tani ìbídámipé? Ìbídámipé ni; Àjòjì arewà aláboyún kan, Tí yiò wo inú ìlú Èdá wá láìròtélè, Tí ó ba tí leè bí omo inú rè sínú ìlú Èdá bàyí; ìlú yíò tùbà, yíò sì tùse,  Oun gbogbo yíò bòsípò fún gbogbo ènìà, Kòpé kòjìnà,  Arewà aláboyún kan wo inú ìlú wá, Ní pasè ìtóni amòye, Amò wípé arewà aláboyún yìí ni gbogbo ìlú ti nretí, Ní kété tí oùn yí balè, Gbogbo ará ìlú, terú tomo, tolórí telèmò, Tonílé tàlejò bá bèrè sí níí keé ìbídámipé bíi omo titun, Oba ìlú Èdá tilè fún ìbídámipé nì ilé nlá alárànbarà kan láti máa gbé, Nínú ilé ...

Who can CAN can CAN. yes! Who can't CAN can CAN. How? If you believe you can CAN,you will CAN. Believe in Yourself, you can CAN. If you can't CAN today, you can CAN tomorrow. Don't think because you can't CAN today, you can't CAN tomorrow. All you get to do is; believe in yourself that you will CAN. Someday! You will CAN. I mean soon!

      Á n gbòròmodìe lówó ikú, Óní akò jé kí òun ràkìtàn lojè, Ló dífá fún ìwo òdó tí aso fún wípé; Òwúrò lojó eni bá máa ríre, Tí òún mí sínú wípé; Sèbí oòrùn tó wá lokè tóó sá aso gbe, Ìwo ti gbàgbé nì wípé; Eni bá kókó dójà ní máa kókó tà, Béè sìni ó dára láti sá aso gbe nì òwúrò Kí asì wòó ní òsán Jù kí asèsè máa fo aso ní òsán, àkókò òde, Oun gbogbo ni àkókò wà fùn, Ìgbà ara báàyí làá búra nítorí; Enìkan kìí bú sàngó nígbà èrùn, Nítorínà ìwo òdó, múra sísé owó re,  Sisé nígbàtí egungun re ní okun, Kí o má bàá fi ewú orí sisé nígbà tí ó báye kí o máa simi.                                                        

Intentionality in Self-Growth The desire of every parents is to see their children grow up, even to their full statures at the appropriate time. Meaning, there is always a required time for growth. A normal child for instance is expected to grow to the level of walking by himself within the range of ten to eighteen months of his life, if such child does not walk within the range of the time expected, fear sets in, in his parents, not only that, they and the people around them will not be happy about the child's condition. In that case, it might be that the child is not fed appreciatly (that is, if the child is not well fed, it can affect his growth) or there is a defect in the Child's brain. However, there is always an iota of intentionality in growth, be it biological or self-growth in various areas like, spiritual, emotional, academical, educational, behavioural,social,mental e.t.c.         Intentionality means the act of being delibrate and conscious a...

Growth is an increase in size, amount and VALUE. There is always a need to grow, not only up but also wide in every areas and facets of life. Just like learning, when you stop to grow you are ready to die.  Templates of Growth   #1 Growth is as essential to man as the breath he breathes, so when he stops to grow he is ready to die. #2 Growth is timely- when a man does not grow as expected and in the appropriate time, it is called a stunted growth. #3 Growing into Maturity in other senses is difficult than growing into maturity Biologically #4 There should always be an iota of intentionality in growth. #5 If you must grow, you must learn.