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FAILURE


  One of the most needful and necessary experience in life is failure. One of the most painful experience in life is failure.Wait! Are you confused? No, don't be. Failure is painful but it's inevitable if you must succeed.
What then is Failure?
        Failure is the experience of not meeting expectations in one's endeavors. It is falling flat from the staircase of success,yet it's the stepping stone to success. 
       The goal of every man who lays his hands on something is to succeed, but it is not always the case, for, a man can find himself doing the same thing and failing hundreds of times, what a painful experience! It can break the heart into pieces. It's not a thing of joy when you find yourself failing, the reality is that it makes man sad.
 At that, is failure evitable in the journey of man? No. The surest inevitable experience in life is failure, but guess what! It brings you closer to your success. Cowards are always afraid of failure and they never succeed but the brave one faces failure and get hold of success.
  If any man must succeed, he should prepare for failure. Get me right, if you never fail ,you can never succeed, but if life is so at your Favour and you get  there without stress, you will have no value and regard for the success.
  How is failure a stepping stone to success?
As human beings, we need to understand this that, failure is part of what we must encounter. This understanding will help us to face failure fairly. Failure becomes a stepping stone only when you understand this fact. In failure you gain knowledge(you know more), experience(you know better), resilience(you learn to get better), growth (you get more strength to forge ahead)and most importantly Value for the success you're about to attain.

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