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FIND YOUR MATES

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Do you still find your MATE among your MATES?
      Your MATE is the picture of who you want to be, Who is really can be your companion. And your MATES are those you flock with. No matter how great the people you flock with today are, they might be just your peers and not mate.  Your ability to find your MATE at the upper level makes you standout.
An Eagle as a case study.
 It mates are other birds but it never find it mate among others, hence it embraces change and do the unimaginable, it soars.
Can you take a shift and see beyond the imagination of your mates and look for your mate at the upper level.
       The eagle will never give up and take defeats. It can live up to 70 years but in its 40s, it becomes weary and tired, it feathers are too heavy to carry it on it famous flight and beak bent to fetch its food. Now watch the decision of the eagle. It manages to fly to the mountain top, stays there for 150 days and there the eagle is renewed and can live strong for the next 30years.
       Hello, if all they do, is all you do, you're still not different from them, getting yourself refined makes you stand out even when you live with them. Investing extraordinarily on yourself makes you stand out. When you don't concor to limitations like the eagle and make yourself better and stronger  then, you're special. 
       A man of focus like the eagle is not always contented with scratching with the turkeys. His desires always is to soar. If all you desire is to scratch with your mates,then you're not projecting well into the future. If all you see is all about today, you will never embrace change like the eagle.
         Guess what! When it rains, all other birds look for shelters to occupy them but, the eagle which do not find it mate among them soars above the clouds. When you face the same problem with your mates, your own solution tells if you're still among them. Forsaking your friends is not the point, the level of your growth and approach to live situations tell that, you are not their mate. Just like other birds will revere the eagle, your peers will bow for you when they see you stand out.
         Friendship is not always forever they say, you always have friends around you, but, what you do, how you behave, your seriousness, your curiosity to improve yourself make you different from them. Realizing that you're not going to be there together forever will make you want to stand out. Therefore, Find your place, Find your mate, Take a shift, Embrace change and Stand out. 
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