LIMITATIONS

Simply, Limitations are called boundaries. How far you can go.

The modal auxiliary "can" is showing ability. So if I say how far you can go, I mean how far your Ability can take you. I will say, A man's limitation  comes with  a  situation when naturally he have the ability to do something, but doing it has a bad effect on him. 

In life, everyone has his/her limitations. Limitations here is quite different from weaknesses and so your weaknesses can also limit you. 

 I know a young man whose friends are drunkards, they drink any kind of drinkable drinks whenever they have the opportunity to, but this young who has discovered his own limitation in that aspect never joins them to drink, despite been their friend. His own boundary is Alcohol. In Essence, to create a boundary for yourself does not always have to do with people you're walking with, it's just about you, your level self determination.

 Dear singles, your singlehood is the period to discover your limitations and place the boundaries around yourself. Everything you can do is not everything you should do. Whatever is good for your friend can be a poison to you.

What makes a man do everything is lack of self examination, take time to examine yourself, know those things you can't do, know the foods that affect you, don't force yourself to go beyond your limitations. Lack of self examination(self-study) has killed alot of people, because they didn't know their limitations and they kept doing everything which at the end of the day led to their death.

 Another thing that makes a man to  go beyond his boundary is Comparison. Some people because of the act of comparing themselves with another person will go beyond their own boundaries. Bukola is a lady who is allergic to make-ups, especially, lip gloss, but she would always want to use it because other ladies are also using it. Until a day it almost took her breath. Comparing yourself with another person is a bad habit. Know yourself and live your own life.

The third and last to mention of things that make a man to cross his boundary is Trying to please people at all cost. Listen, if you want to please everybody you will kill yourself. No body will arrest you if you say No to a request or an offer. You have the power to reject and accept so don't kill yourself because you want to please anybody. 

Whatever can make you sick, whatever can make you cry, whatever can make you sad, don't do it to please anyman.