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Just Walk Away, It's a Toxic Relationship

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  It is pertinent to understand that, no human can survive without interacting with other human beings. However, many people think their surviver is hinged on relationship with a particular person or set of people. Which is not so, the kind of interaction we are talking about is not an attachment with a particular person.Truly in our societies,we find ourselves in social gatherings, and there we mingle with people, we meet and get along with friends.
       We meet friends, we relate with people interpersonally, we talk about life, we share love, and become intimate during the process. During that process we realize that friendship is one of the best relationship in the society.  Even though,it is not every relationship that matters. We need to draw the line, every relationship can not benefit us no matter how, unless you don't have values that guide your life.
       Friendship as a kind of relationship in the society that builds people, it's makes one strong. If you must stay in any interpersonal relationship, it must agree with your personal Value, if not, you have to let go. A lot of people in our societies have volunteered themselves for Abuse. Abuse is not only in beating or insult. Abuse is an improper treatment or usage of something. Any relationship in which you are not valued is an  abusive relationship and it's time to let go!
       In as much as we have different people with different ideas living in the society. Every ideas can not agree with your own idea. Create and build values around your life, So that you will be able to discern what is good for you, who is good for you and where is good for you. Any relationship that only sucks you and never contributes is not good for you. Any Relationship in which you are not Respected is not  good for you. Don't allow anybody in the name of friendship to intimidate you and press down your self esteem, you have to let go.
        If you stay in an abusive relationship, it means your life is short of Values. When it is not your choice, when it does not agree with your self Value, Move away from it, it is not good for you. You have to walk away! 

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