MATURITY

Human beings do not grow up same day we are born, it takes time to grow. Also, growing up to the stage of maturity in all manners and areas is not an overnight course, it takes time, work and concrete experiences. At a time, a man would think he has known it, another time a strange experience would befall on him, then began to feel like a baby. So, relax, no body has known it all, we learn until we die, but the most horrible thing is that a man should refuse learn.

       To grow is not a day job, you have to follow yourself up and see yourself yielding. The following are the few things you must do to grow yourself to the level of maturity in any area; 

Growth is A Gradual Process

The first is, understand that growth is a process, it's achieved through experiences. There are so many things you can not learn about until you experience the situations. Man needs to be mature Emotionally, Socially, Spiritually, Sexually and in Relationship wise. It takes a gradual process, all is not and can not be learnt in a day.

 Accept Your Frails

No man is born perfect, it is in the school of yourself you learn to drop the bads and adjust in the areas you are not perfect. If a man must grow, he must see the reason for it, and the awareness of your imperfections and weaknesses (frails) is what gives you reasons to need growth. So, you need to take yourself to the school of yourself (your personal place of evaluation ) analyse your weaknesses and desire to improve. #read my post on Place of Evaluation) 

Be An Open-Minded Learner

It is always good to seek knowledge.  Always seek to learn, learn from everyone that crosses your path, even if the person is bad, learn through his/her bads not to be bad. You can always learn from two people, Yourself and others. At times it is good to learn from other people's experiences than learning through your own experiences, learning through your own difficult experiences might not be palatable, but it is good, because it makes you grow. Therefore, it is good for you to always be open-minded, let not any thing you should know or learn to slip away, hold on to knowledge.

Choose the Comic part of Life and not the Tragic part

In the Drama of the world, there is always two roles and that's the comic and the tragic roles. The spectators/Audience of tragic plays are always emotional, nothing opens their teeth in the cinema, their feelings are risen, so you see them frowning and unhappy. Compared to Comedy, even if the play is attacking the audience, they pay less attention, they are carried away with the fun, every faces are full of smiles, no one frowns, even if you are an emotional being, you forget yourself and laugh along. The audience of Comic plays are learning,yet they are happy. So, if you must enjoy life and grow fast to the maturity level, the comic part is the best to choose in the Drama of the world, it is full of satire and fun. It is the balanced part, you learn and you get along with life.