SELF-CONFIDENCE

        Self-confidence is a thing you consciously cultivate into your life. Self-confidence is a state of believing in one's self. It is being sure of who, what you are and your ability. One of those things that fuels one's self-confidence is self-esteem.

      Self-esteem is an act of understanding and living by Self-Worth. Meaning whatever you understand or believe about yourself is whatever you live by. By implication, if you believe nothing good about yourself, you have a low self-esteem and if you so believe in yourself positively, your self-esteem rises.

          However, a lot of people believe not in themselves because they think, a neighbour is better of them. It is a No! Whosoever is not you is not better than you, they might have what you don't have, but they also do not have what you have, so, why comparing yourself? You are completely perfect.

       Again, Negative thoughts about yourself, not accepting your physique, your background, your personality  makes you feel inferior among your peers. I want you to have this understanding that, because you are different in shape and in other ways does not mean you are inferior, it only makes you unique. And looking at yourself in a more Unique way builds your self-esteem and your self-confidence is thereby influenced. 

        This habit of lack of self-confidence is common and rampant in our society. In that, some people want to become like another person, they would say "she is cool, relax and outspoken. My dear, that your natural way of behaving is the best for you. You think because your temperament is different from your friend's, he or she is better than you? No. You are uniquely packaged by God.  Whatever you see in your life is you. Don't feel inferior about it, don't compare yourself with any body, do not compete with any body because you are not inferior to anyone. Accept and cherish yourself. That is the best way to build your self-esteem and fuel your self-confidence.

       In reality, negative words from people can bring you down, but there is what to do. Whosoever is myopic speaks to bring your esteem down. And anyone who speaks about you is expressing an opinion, and remember,  it's not every opinion that matters, once the opinion does not fit your life, discard it and move on. It is your right to choose words that penetrate into your life. Choose the good and encouraging words.

      Largely, the success of a man all-rounder is determined by his self-confidence. If you don't believe in yourself, you can achieve nothing.