SELF-STUDY

People these days wander a lot, and the reason simply is, they are living for others, not for themselves. In other words, they live a very reckless and nonechalant life, a life of no attention to oneself.

       The best person you should know is yoursel. It is ironic to say many people are living without knowing who they are and what they want. Meanwhile that is the reality. Know this that, no matter how close anybody can be to you, such person can not know you( I mean all of you can not be known),it is what you know about yourself that you communicate to people around you, and what you communicate to them determines how they treat you. Since no man can know you better than you can know yourself, the question is,what do you know about yourself? Do you have a personal diary for Self-Study?

     To Know yourself entails the ability to study yourself and set your priorities. If you ask some people, what do you want? They don't know, they have a little knowledge about themselves.  You can have things that really interest you, but might not be what you like and need. So, your Self-Study is what will guide you through to write down and analyse your priorities.

     Singles especially need to know themselves now that they are still single, because it is very  difficult thing to sustain a relationship with another person without you knowing yourself and your needs. You needed to study yourself to know your Emotional, financial, material, career, professional, social, relationship and sexual needs. All of these are what you need, but how you need them is determined by you not your friends, not teachers, not parents and not even your spouse. It is your life and the only way you can be able to analyze your priorities is taking yourself to the school of yourself for self study.

     Self-Study is a way of paying a very close attention to one self. It is through self study you can know what stirs your anger and happiness, what makes you happier, what makes you weak, what brings down your esteem, what boosts your morale. It is through self-study you can know who should and should not stay in your life, who you should stick to, where you like to go and where you can never have interest to go.

      Giving yourself a self study brings you closer to yourself, and it makes your mind mature. When  you give time for self study, you don't need to hum before knowing the answers to what you want because all have been analyzed in your place of study.

     Start to study yourself today, set out your priorities, it is your responsibility, it is a way of transforming your life, it a way of growing yourself to Maturity.