WHEN TO TEMPER YOUR WORDS

To temper words does not mean to keep quiet or be silent. It simply means, being conscious, intentional and considerate in speech making. One of the major challenges of this generation is the inability to meddle words rightly. We often mis talk and over talk in the process of trying to explain or express feelings. A lot of people have missed beautiful relationships (not only romantic relationships) due to been short tempered in words.

Emotional Maturity is weighed by the ability temper words. That is the ability to control your words and meddle it rightly. Get this right, positive words also needs to be tempered.

Well, there are times someone needs to be more conscious with words, in these following situations, we must be conscious of our words;

# When you are Emotionally Tensed, please temper your words

# When it's time to make a promise

# When people are eager to hear from you

# When in front of a congregation

# When you barely have an idea

# When you are not the only one talking. For instance, you are in the midst of a crowd of people and all of them seems to be talking, my dear, be conscious!

When you know that your words might be misunderstood

# When you are two... this is the most serious time, every bits of words you say matters when it is two of you talking

# When you are afraid

# When you are in the midst of lovers and haters

# When you with people who loves you

# When you are with people who hate you

It is always good to live a conscious life! Reckless or frivolous living is disastrous

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