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The Youth Proverbs (Vol.13)::"No Coward Marries A Heroine,No Hero Marries A Fool"

No coward marries a heroine,
No hero marries a fool,
A heroine for the valiant,
A virtues for the Hero.
Every man wants to be the King,
Every woman wants to be the Queen,
But not all wants to be the valiant,
Not all wants to be the virtues.

Cowardice is a stain to the royalty of the Queen,
Folly is a stain to the royalty of the King,
If you crave not a fool, do not be the coward,
If you crave not a coward, do not be the fool.

O'Daughters of Zion!
Thou art fair,'cause He says;
You are Fairfully and Wonderfully made,
He made you for the Hero.

Oh the knight in His robe,
Anticipating the fair you,
Do not mock the virtue,
Do not shame your Hero Father.

Your father a hero!
The hero is the son of your Father,
The heroine is the seed of your Father,
Not in anywhere but the home of your Father.

No coward in your home,
No fool on your home,
If you are His daughter, you are for His son,
If you are His son, you are for His Daughter.

I have known the home of folly and cowardice,
The pit of hell,
Do not go there!
They will eat you fresh!

The virtues builds, the fool pulls down,
The valiant waters, the coward burns,
No hero, no heroine takes defeat,
You will win if your sibling you marry.

O'Youth! No fulfillment in a faulty marriage,
It is a journey of no return,
Wait for your Knight and Fair One,
To rock the path.

In a Nutshell;
Your marital choice is capable to mar or make your destiny in life. Saddening, devil uses marriage to distabilize a youth's life and when the person is left with no strength, (i.e very old) he brings back the (seeming)joy of marriage. Meanwhile destiny and lives must have been wasted by then. That is why every youth must be very vigilant when the time comes to choose a marital partner. Devil has his own children scattered abroad to truncate and totally shake off the plans of God through marriage. Devil has little or nothing to do with the old, his most ranging war is declared against the youth on every sides.
There was a virtues woman in the Bible who got himself in the hand of a fool. Abigail who is not only virtues but also a heroine found himself married to Nabal who is a fool. Despite the irony in the marriage, she would never take defeat, she fought to deliver her foolish husband and household from the mouth sword through her heroic acts. Thank God for His mercy, the folly of Nabal killed him at the end and the heroine was taken by a hero, king David.( 1samuel 25:2-42). If you are already in a wrong marriage, all you can do is pray for God's mercy and intervention, I'm not saying you divorce your spouse, He hates divorce  but God can change the worse to best. Ahab is a "young" king who married a demonic heroine in the Bible. Jezebel is a wife who is always ready to fight for her husband (although against God). She would never take defeat, but so demonic. (1kings 21:1-16) There are young men and women in this generation also who are ready to support you in logging out of the will and purpose of God. Eventually, such journey always end in destruction.
Either you get it right or wrong, marriage is a journey of no return. Either you divorce or not, the impact of it remains. Therefore, the only way to avoid making marital error acknowledging that you a child of God and a hero or heroine. Your identity in God helps you to make the right choice. You can depend on Him when you are sure of who you are in Him. Your life, fulfillment of purpose and generation is dependent on your marital choice, don't mar them.



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