Vickie's Vibes

You are the wholest creature. Yes! You are perfect. You are pretty, handsome, awesome and made wholly.  Darling, the one who created you is an author of perfection. He is perfect and all the works of His hands are without fault.  Are you fair to look upon or unsightly? You are as perfect as you are. Are you thin or fat? The best it can be is the best it is. Do you wish you were fair and not dark or vice versa? Dear, you can’t be such.  Is your skin acne-prone? You can’t be more perfect. Do you resent your dental composition? You don’t have to. Why? Because that’s how best it can be. Let me share my story with you. The basis of my timidity and low self-esteem in my teens is my dental composition. There would never be a day someone, somewhere would not talk about it. My diastema was not as wide as it is today, my upper fore teeth were long that my lips could not cover them…the first thing anyone would probably notice about me would be the way I used to (unconsci...

I would be too quick to judge who he really was to Jane as at that time.   His outfit surpassed that of a mere colleague for an indoor party but then, he seemed to be known by Jola because she challenged them for coming later than they planned when the four walked in... “He may be one of the millionaires in her office, maybe he’s her boss…see, whatever!” I bothered my mind with this thought as I stylishly scrutinized his entire outfit.   He was dressed in a pink senator attire touched with silver accessories, his shoes were Italian products and his wrist watch matched with the accessories on his attire. I was certain, that watch was a designer watch.   As if he knew I was staring at him...he removed his shades and turned to the right, he said, "Hi".  "Hello", I replied bluntly. His face took my breath. "This guy is cute!" I said the usual thing I used to say to handsome men...words that never got to their ears. I didn’t fancy beards on men, but...

Hello o! You have a baby. Are you surprised? You shouldn’t. Inside every human being are a lot of children- when one grows another surface. Your “Weakness” is what I liken to “a baby”. You have a weakness, my dear. Whoever you are, however wise you think you are, which ever position you occupy in life, you are not human if you deny having a weakness. What makes you human is your weakness. And, what makes you a sensible human being is your humility to accept the fact that you have a weakness(es). Do not be numbered among people who think they are perfect- only God is perfect. Don’t get me wrong. Weakness is different from sin. Sin is a deliberate act of rebellion against God through nature. For instance, robbery, killing, fornication and the likes. While a weakness is a behavioural flaw in an individual, this can be nonchalance, playfulness, laziness, talkativeness, mismanagement, pride, workaholism and so on. You may not find your own in this list, but the truth is that y...

I was thirteen when my mother was pregnant with her last child. Eventually, she was delivered of the baby the week I discovered she was pregnant. Isn't that tricky?😎 Her pregnancy would only make you feel she was adding weight.   The protrusion of the stomach is not synonymous to pregnancy. How many people with a protruding stomach are not pregnant and how many of them truly pregnant are unnoticed, until their delivery is near.     Darling, I'm glad to announce to you that, you are pregnant! You may want to personalize that, say, "I am pregnant".   You don't need to check your tummy, why? Because, you are not carrying a biological pregnancy, hence, you carry the pregnancy of great potential.   Say, "I carry the pregnancy of great potential". So, you were created, darling! You were created a pregnant being.   You are a pregnant being! This was the declaration at your creation; "...Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the ea...

Do not say, "I don't have a company". I know you too well, darling, you are a CEO. Yes, you are the Chief Executive Officer of your life!  You are in charge of your life. Since He(God) made you and breathed His breath into you, you became whole (perfect) to rule. (Genesis 2:7) All His ability as God the father is transferred to you (His image- offspring) to dominate the earth, including you- your choices, actions, decisions, weaknesses, strengths, possessions, and relationships. (Genesis 1:26). Since you are in charge, you are at the centre of decisions in your life. You can choose who/what to or not to stay in your life through self will. He created you with the 'will' which resides right in your mind. . The primary purpose of your creation is to dominate and manage, your life first, then, the earth.  What a huge responsibility to bear the CEO of your life? It is an identity encapsulated in a huge responsibility.  For you to be successful, you must p...

You among every human being on earth has a name. I can't answer your name neither you,mine. My name is what they call me. You have a lifestyle, a story, a profession, a family. You have records of success, struggles, failures and mistakes.  When you look into the mirror, you see you. So, who are you? If you say it's your name, it is a means of identification. If you say it's your physique(biological composition), it is a means of physical description. Your lifestyle(past, present and future), your family, your profession, your ability, your gifts, your struggles, your mistakes, your success, your failure only appeal to mundane senses. Hence, who you are can never be defined or determined by the physical senses. Do not confuse the questions; What is your name? What do you do? What are your abilities? What does your life experience look like? Etc. with Who are you? You are more than what the eyes of man can see. Your physical appearance does not matter in defining...

How interesting does it feel to know that you are an immortal being? Bum!🌟 That is who you are! You are a spirit! Knowing who you are helps you to approach life rightly as you strive daily to fulfill purpose. You are a spirit that lives in the body and has a soul. You connect with the spiritual realms through your spirit. You connect with the soulical realm through your mind. You connect with the physical realm through your body. You are a tripartite being. Your spirit, soul and body are so important and must align with the purpose of your existence if you must fulfill it. You need to take care of the three you, if you must live. (1Thessalonians 5:23). The only way to take care of your spirit is to yield it to God, your creator by accepting Him as your Lord and saviour. His Holy Spirit will dwell in you and through prayer and fasting, reading and studying the scripture, your spirit will stay holy and aligned with God.  As a man, you have the choice to choose who you yi...