Balance after Blow (BAB)

I got into a physical argument with someone, sometime ago and the next I would see was a glare darkness!

She hit me on the face, and everything went blank and dark, it was almost like my eyes were plucked out of my kinky head.

Chai! It wasn't a great day for me that day, I couldn't get my clear sight and balance until a few hours after the incidence.

Stories like that are better told than experienced.

Howbeit, life throws us blows on every side and at every time.

When one is hit by the blow of this life, the experience is not always like honey to the taste bud. The experience is best as not palatable.

Blows from life are the challenges we encounter at every stage of our lives. Challenges are inevitable in life and so it is a must for us to get out of it to get our goals.

Challenges most of the times are not traceable to our faults or weaknesses, things just happen.

Finding your balance after blow is parallel to the importance of your existence. You can't shut down your life because of a one-time challenge, even if it happened more than one time, it's worth it to get back up.

It is not your fault that life knocked you down, but it is your ultimate responsibility to get back up.

Yes, you have to get up and get your goals!

Can you get back up by your strength? No! But you have to make the decision to get back up. It is the first thing needed when you are knocked down by the blow of this life, when you make the decision to get back up, God will reach out to you and help get you up.

Remember, nothing is worth your life dream, goals and purpose. No matter how severe it can be, you have to make the decision to gain your balance and press on till you kill it.

It's June for Jubilation!

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